Supermarket Swept Away: 49 Days till Love

Challenge #2: Supermarket Sweep: man version!

So i need to go to a grocery store and instead of really shopping for groceries, i am shopping for gentlemen! how exactly? Like starting conversation with a guy about what he’s cooking…maybe exchanging recipes and then suggesting we cook together sometime…

Alright, now what part of Los Angeles is best for this? And any market recommendations??

Eye on the Prize….55 Days to Go!

The training has begun. Challenge #1 (if I should choose to accept it….which, durrr, I have):

Make eye contact with a man for at least 3 seconds and then go say hello.

Seems easy, no? Well, in our little town of Anatevka completely, utterly intimidating land of LA, it is much easier said then done…also, I am awkward. Let’s just put that out there. Like, I feel when I give a “SEXY Look” to a guy, it probably looks like I am Sneeze/Farting or something equally as atrocious…you know what I’m sayin’? Yeah… Continue reading

56 Days To Find A Lover….

“The problem is all inside your head”, she said to me
The answer is easy if you take it logically
I’d like to help you in your struggle to be free attached

Whoops, I changed that last word! But for real, New Years, that stupid, stupid holiday is 56 days away….56 short days now because of stupid Day Light Savings! And obviously people do start discussing New Year’s Eve plans now because things get busy and crazy with Christmas and Hanukkah and Kwanza, and Thanksgiving, and my birthday (hint hint). And as this season is upon us, so is the time for cozy sweaters, and hot chocolate, and cuddling by a fire…with someone special. Someone who I currently don’t have! Continue reading


You mean Football….or Baseball, right SSG?
NO! I mean Fantasy Dating! Some crafty woman decided it was time for women to have some fun! And what is it that us ladies sit around and talk about…GUYS! So, when not create a point system for it and call it a game!
Basically, it’s fairly simple:

About Fantasy Dating

What:   It’s like any other fantasy sport, but you’re playing for love.
Who:   Your hot neighbor, the bartender you’ve been crushing on, a friendship you’d like to take to the next level…it’s your game.
Where:   The world is your playing field. Your new love, your prize.
How:   There is nobody on the planet like YOU. Use any talents, tools, networks you’ve got!
When:   Tick. Tock. Why not now??
Why:   You deserve better than waiting around for that special someone. Empower yourself and fall in love.
 (I did not write the above….it came from their website)
So, what do you need to do? Well, join my “League” I started!!
2. Sign up! (it’s freeeeeee!!!)
3. Then join my league I created: SadSingleGals
4. And then try to win!!!
Come on!! Do it!! We’re Sad….We’re Single….and We are here to Mingle!!!

Sad Single Summer

So I’ve tried this one before…and you know what? You’ve all been big fat (speaking of fat and summer…UGHHHH) failures. I’ve asked for your questions, your quandaries, your hopes, your dreams, your ways to humiliate me….

Well I guess some people never learn!!

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I’m Either Really Picky, or A Wimp

So for you long time readers of mine (we live in the age of 140 characters, so long time means reading to the end of this sentence basically), you might remember a few weeks ago a asked for some dares. If not you can read it again here: I Dare Send Me a Dare!

Well, one such reader DID actually send me a dare:

Dear Singlegal
I dare you to…walk up to the next cute guy you see (in a bar, on a bus, in a whole foods parking lot, etc.) and ask him out. or at the very least, give him a sexy smile and wink and slip him your phone number. (i’m nice with my dares. i give you options).

just fyi if you find your future husband this way, i am totally taking all the credit…

law student in love

Well, everyone….this was in fact sent to me on Wednesday, July 6th. For those of you not at your iphones or sitting in front of your icals right now, that was two whole weeks AND a day ago! And guess what? I really haven’t seen any cute guys that I have wanted to go up to. Or have I? And am I just the biggest wimp in the world, and I convince myself not to make a move? And for that matter, what’s holding me back?

If only this children's book could give me dating advice!

I don’t really know, but maybe but exposing myself to the world the few people who decide to actually click on the links on my facebook page because they are bored at work as well, will actually force me to go up to a cute guy sooner rather than later. And not psych myself out in my head.

And another note, I will take more dares. Feel free to send them. I will actually (eh..who knows? I hope so…embarass me enough in the comments and I will!) try to do them, so think out of the box and tweet, email, comment below and force me to put myself out there in the world!

Email me @
Tweet me @sadsinglegal
Comment: BELOW!!!!

I Dare you to….send me a dare!

Do you remember when you were a little kid and there was something that you didn’t want to do, so you dared your friend to do it? Or when you were at overnight camp, and your whole bunk in unison yelled something like, “We dare you to wear underwear on your head to dinner,” and you HAD to or else you would feel like losers?

Ah, remember when this look was this funny? To be at overnight camp....

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